Thursday, December 15, 2022

How to Celebrate Advent with the Family

In my book, "Life in the Neck Advent of Christmas," siblings Eli and Elsie celebrate Advent. Advent is the liturgical holiday that leads up to Christ's Nativity, which usually falls on Christmas.

Most Christians celebrate Advent by lighting a special candle each Sunday in the four weeks leading up to Christmas.

What makes Advent unique is that it helps families focus on the true meaning of the holiday. From Christ's humble birth to his legacy, celebrating Advent keeps us grounded on what is truly important.

Suppose you are like most American families and would like to celebrate Advent. Here are examples of how to make it into a family tradition:

1. Light up special Advent Candles.

Advent involves lighting up special candles on a wreath. Every Sunday leading up to Christmas, families may light up a candle and pray before they start reading. Some advent candles come in different colors, which include purple, pink, and white. Each of them has its special meaning.

- For the first two weeks, the candle will be purple. The first symbolizes hope and is known as the "Prophecy Candle." Isaiah foretold the birth of Christ in Isaiah 9:6.

- The second candle symbolizes faith. This candle is the "Bethlehem Candle," representing Joseph and Mary's journey.

- The third candle is pink, also called the "Shepard's Candle." This candle reminds us of the joy the world experienced when Jesus was born.

- On the fourth week, the candle is purple this time and marks the final week of prayer and penance. This candle is called the "Angel's Candle," which symbolizes peace on earth.

- Many modern celebrations include a fifth candle lit on Christmas Eve. This white candle is called the "Christ Candle" and is in the center of the wreath.

When lighting candles, it's essential to observe proper safety measures. However, fake candle lamps can be safer alternatives.

2. Share Stories and Scriptures related to Advent.

After lighting the candle each week, it helps to reflect on some of the passages related to Advent. If you have younger children, consider sharing stories related to the holiday. Here are some stories for suggestions:

- Isaiah delivering God's message of the Messiah's birth

- Mary and Joseph's journey to Bethlehem

- The Three Wise Men

3. Practice Charity.

Another way to have a meaningful advent is to spread joy within the community. Teach your children the gift of giving by donating old clothes, toys, and books to a local charity. You can also bake treats together and share them with neighbors and loved ones!

4. Attend your local church during Advent.

Consider attending church every Sunday for advent masses from the weeks heading into Christmas. Allow yourself to connect with the holiday's themes and enrich your family's spiritual health.

Advent is a time of focusing on our Savior's birth. For more suggestions, visit your church to see if there are advent-related activities.

- by Diane Davies, author of Life in the Neck: Advent of Christmas

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