Educating Kids About Cancer With Stories

Receiving a cancer diagnosis as an adult can be an overwhelming and shocking experience. The first thing that most people tend to do after the shock wears off is wonder how they will break the news to their loved ones, especially their children.

There are many reasons why talking to children about cancer is challenging. One reason is that cancer is a complex condition with no definite prognosis. Another is that, as adults, we're expected to handle things rationally instead of emotionally to avoid instilling fear in children.

However, children are a lot more perceptive than we give them credit. Even if we don't outright say we're worried or bothered, they can pick up on our feelings and wonder if they can do anything about it.

When this happens, it helps to be honest with the child. Being truthful can be painful, but it also lets the child know you trust them.

Nevertheless, it's also essential to remember that you must communicate in a way a child can understand. This step means avoiding overly complicated terms, getting to the point, and being patient when they ask questions or share their concerns.

Another way to help children understand the nature of cancer is through books and stories. For example, one book, "Jeannie Ann's Grandma Has Breast Cancer," tells the story of a six-year-old girl who quickly learns her grandmother has breast cancer. The story brings up fears, questions, and misunderstandings from facing a medical challenge. With her family by her side, Jeannie Ann quickly learns what cancer can bring and why listening to our loved ones matter.

If you're trying to explain the nature of the disease to a child, consider educating them through stories instead. Once you read through the illustrated pages, you can ask your little one how they feel about the story and what questions they may have, and listen to their thoughts and feelings.